There are certain questions Professional Trainers hear with some frequency. “How in the world will I find time to train my dog?” is muttered often, and usually accompanied by a deep sigh. I feel you here…. Oh, do I feel you here! Trainers are known for not “finding time” to train their own dogs. Yep. There it is. Secret revealed! In the rare times Trainers get together to exchange stories and training methodologies, we often lament the lack of dedication we have to our own dogs’ advancement in the art of training. “A cobblers shoes are always worn,” is the analogy I share with my clients as a sympathetic nod to their feelings of frustration when they wonder how they will fit one more item into their very busy schedules. It’s a no-brainer that, as a Professional Trainer, I deeply feel training a pet is just as important as regular vet visits, mental and physical exercise and even right up there with basic care of feeding and shelter. How in the world then could we Trainers not carve out time to build our own dogs’ skills?! I’ve recently had an epiphany.
“It ends up, peer pressure can be a very good thing.”
“Finding time,” isn’t what’s standing in our way. Scheduling and committing to actually executing it is the answer. Like a diamond of clarity shot to my brain, my business coach put it very succinctly just this morning. It doesn’t have to be perfect. It doesn’t have to be for an hour or even thirty minutes. It just has to be done. “Don’t ruin good with perfect” was also imparted to me years ago by a wise counsel. Want to start meditating? Need to get back to working out? Want to teach your dog a new skill or help him modify a not so pretty behavior he’s developed? Commit and execute. Start simple. Dedicate five minutes. The feeling of accomplishment and the positive results from that execution will motivate you to do it again. A very big part of my work is motivating people and teaching them how to motivate their pets.
Now, I am choosing to eat my own dog food. To take the same concepts I’ve fed others for years and “walk the walk.” I’ve been training animals for a very long time. I naturally stay motivated to gobble up the latest research and techniques around modern dog and cat behavior and training. No planning, commitment or execution issues there, thank you very much. I reach people through my Private Training, Day Training and Growl Classes to impart what I’ve learned and get immense joy from helping my clients and their pets. It’s not enough. This Trainer needs more. This Trainer has been slacking. This Trainer is making a change!
I’m not a routine type of person. Oh, sure, I brush my teeth every morning, make coffee, walk the dogs, feed them, check email. I can even keep my scheduled appointments like an adult. But purposely creating a new ritual or routine and sticking to it (Hear me giggling with a twisted sound of fear in that laugh)? Just take a look here at the dates on my very old former attempt at blogging regularly. Add to that, the fact that I have several new routines and goals I want to implement into my daily life, and now imagine me looking like a deer in the headlights.
This will take immense dedication on my part. I’m nervous I will fail. I’m afraid I will let my pets down, let myself down and disappoint you. BUT, I’m diving in! And I’m doing it very publicly. EEK! It ends up, peer pressure can be a very good thing. We use it in training sometimes. It’s known as Social Facilitation. So, I’ve scheduled out my new routines into the week and am inviting you along for the ride as I sore to new heights, stumble, succeed and even pull the curtain back on training secrets (Hint: there’s no big secret to training. It just takes a willingness to learn, a bit of patience and to actually train). Drum roll! My New Rituals:
- Train each of my three pets for 10 minutes a day three days a week in total.
- Share this journey here in hopes of motivating, educating and making you laugh to learn trainers are humans too.
- Self Care – To bed early and to rise early and working out 3 days a week.
- Stay motivated and pat myself on the back with every win.
Let’s do this!